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		<title>By: Tim Nichols</title>
		<link>http://fullcontactchristianity.org/2009/01/11/competent-to-counsel/#comment-275</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 07:10:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;strong&gt;Hey, everybody, listen up! &lt;/strong&gt; This is the kind of thing you want to avoid.

Someone, posting under a pseudonym, invited me to a debate in the comment above.  Thing is, the guy I&#039;d be debating, Jon Speed, has never heard of me (nor had I heard of him), and most importantly, he&#039;s not the one issuing the invitation.  In fact, he says right out front on his blog that he&#039;s not interested in debating.  

So I emailed Jon Speed and asked him if he knew &quot;Interested Spectator&quot; or recognized the email address.  

Big surprise -- he doesn&#039;t, and like me, he&#039;s not interested in being duped into a fight on the internet by some anonymous third party.

Meanwhile I emailed &quot;Interested Specter&quot;...er, I meant &quot;Spectator,&quot; and asked, &quot;Who are you?&quot;  

A couple of days have elapsed since I asked that question, and in the second big surprise of the weekend, I&#039;ve gotten no answer -- in fact, no answer to that email at all.

But I have a guess.  The suggestion came from...

...yet another e-arsonist intent on starting a flame war.  As to exactly who it is -- Pimply teenager?  Bible school freshman with too much time on his hands?  Opponent of John Speed (or me) who wants someone else to do his homework for him? Modern Diotrephes trying to interest his opponents in someone other than him? -- I have no idea.

It is, of course, possible that this person is just exhibiting spectacularly bad judgment, and not ill intent.  The practical result, of course, would be the same.

But in any case, I&#039;m not going to play.  More important things to do than dance to some sockpuppet&#039;s tune, no matter why he plays it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Hey, everybody, listen up! </strong> This is the kind of thing you want to avoid.</p>
<p>Someone, posting under a pseudonym, invited me to a debate in the comment above.  Thing is, the guy I&#8217;d be debating, Jon Speed, has never heard of me (nor had I heard of him), and most importantly, he&#8217;s not the one issuing the invitation.  In fact, he says right out front on his blog that he&#8217;s not interested in debating.  </p>
<p>So I emailed Jon Speed and asked him if he knew &#8220;Interested Spectator&#8221; or recognized the email address.  </p>
<p>Big surprise &#8212; he doesn&#8217;t, and like me, he&#8217;s not interested in being duped into a fight on the internet by some anonymous third party.</p>
<p>Meanwhile I emailed &#8220;Interested Specter&#8221;&#8230;er, I meant &#8220;Spectator,&#8221; and asked, &#8220;Who are you?&#8221;  </p>
<p>A couple of days have elapsed since I asked that question, and in the second big surprise of the weekend, I&#8217;ve gotten no answer &#8212; in fact, no answer to that email at all.</p>
<p>But I have a guess.  The suggestion came from&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;yet another e-arsonist intent on starting a flame war.  As to exactly who it is &#8212; Pimply teenager?  Bible school freshman with too much time on his hands?  Opponent of John Speed (or me) who wants someone else to do his homework for him? Modern Diotrephes trying to interest his opponents in someone other than him? &#8212; I have no idea.</p>
<p>It is, of course, possible that this person is just exhibiting spectacularly bad judgment, and not ill intent.  The practical result, of course, would be the same.</p>
<p>But in any case, I&#8217;m not going to play.  More important things to do than dance to some sockpuppet&#8217;s tune, no matter why he plays it.</p>
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		<title>By: interested spectator</title>
		<link>http://fullcontactchristianity.org/2009/01/11/competent-to-counsel/#comment-270</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 16:49:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey Tim,

This is off-topic for the thread, but how about going to bat for the Free Grace position in the new series over at http://informedevangelist.blogspot.com/?  It would be nice to read some constructive dialogue.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Tim,</p>
<p>This is off-topic for the thread, but how about going to bat for the Free Grace position in the new series over at <a href="http://informedevangelist.blogspot.com/?" rel="nofollow">http://informedevangelist.blogspot.com/?</a>  It would be nice to read some constructive dialogue.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Nichols</title>
		<link>http://fullcontactchristianity.org/2009/01/11/competent-to-counsel/#comment-269</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 19:12:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gary, 

There has been some difficulty getting the key players into the war room to have that discussion, although at least one such attempt has been made.  The problem is that there are prior issues that have to be hashed out -- how do we conduct these conflicts in the first place, and what does Christian unity mean in practice when arguing about the gospel?  Starting with the Protestant Reformation, and most recently (in our circles) with the Lordship Salvation wars, God has given us a series of opportunities to settle those prior concerns so we can deal with the doctrinal issues in a God-honoring way.  

To put it bluntly, we&#039;ve not succeeded; instead, we&#039;ve just grown ever more schismatic.  Until that tide turns, I don&#039;t see any resolution on the gospel spat.

His, 
Tim]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gary, </p>
<p>There has been some difficulty getting the key players into the war room to have that discussion, although at least one such attempt has been made.  The problem is that there are prior issues that have to be hashed out &#8212; how do we conduct these conflicts in the first place, and what does Christian unity mean in practice when arguing about the gospel?  Starting with the Protestant Reformation, and most recently (in our circles) with the Lordship Salvation wars, God has given us a series of opportunities to settle those prior concerns so we can deal with the doctrinal issues in a God-honoring way.  </p>
<p>To put it bluntly, we&#8217;ve not succeeded; instead, we&#8217;ve just grown ever more schismatic.  Until that tide turns, I don&#8217;t see any resolution on the gospel spat.</p>
<p>His,<br />
Tim</p>
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		<title>By: Gary</title>
		<link>http://fullcontactchristianity.org/2009/01/11/competent-to-counsel/#comment-268</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 00:09:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Interesting commentary.  Titled to address Counseling, but opens the door to discuss, at minimum, Unity, Inter-Family Relations and Communications, and the Gospel &quot;Spat&quot;.

I&#039;m going to address the latter issue and leave it to you to post where you determine to be most appropriate since I see you have another area of your site for the Gospel discussions. For reasons of personal preference, I&#039;ll refer to this &quot;spat&quot; as a debate.  

I have watched this debate from afar.  When it intensified awhile back, I too wrote an open letter to the parties, but I did not send it.  It seemed the debate and separations were determined to be necessary.

Some time prior to the intensification, I attended a Pastor’s conference where a paper was presented by one of the debaters, and based upon the questions from the audience it was quite obvious that there was a level of discomfort regarding the paper that had just been presented.  Although I understood the reasoning, I was disheartened that the decision was made to leave the topic and continue with the other scheduled presentations.  With all the minds in attendance, it seemed an excellent time to continue the discussion on the Gospel, or at least to provide the opportunity for any interested parties to meet afterward and continue the discussion and debate as necessary.

Another thing I noticed from the questions was that each questioner had what seemed to be a favorite aspect of the Gospel that they were concerned had been negated or had become secondary.  

You make a good point about the fact that in earlier times there was a presumption of unity and that things got worked out.  Sadly your point about our ability to take a position today and then just separate and move on is also quite true.  And this point has come back upon itself in that there are so many different opinions today and such extensive immediately available communications of them, that even the most important and basic doctrines of the Bible, including the Gospel, are so varied and confused that unity in understanding is nothing more than something Christ Himself will need to return to establish.  We can be thankful that we are not the Sovereign Executive of Evangelism, nor the Sovereign Executive of anything, or we would accomplish nothing as a Body.

The Gospel debate should continue.  Maybe the fact that is has heated up has to do with all the confused and varied forms of it being presented today.  Maybe it heated up because it needs to be brought into focus and straightened out like the other historical controversies you mention.  If we listen, there are way too many versions of the Gospel being expressed quite loudly and boldly.  No surprise but not good.  

For me, I’m not so concerned with men acting like children as we all do at times.  I’m more concerned with how we let a major point of our Faith be put aside while we carry on with our scheduled agendas, and how we carry on thinking we know the truth but that other guy who I used to go to, to help me understand an area of Scripture I was struggling with, now has no merit as an exegete, at least on this topic.

The more I watch us as a Body, and the more I attempt to recognize my own sin ridden capacities and motivations, the more I’m reminded of an old TV commercial that stopped the argument by saying, “Stop! You’re both right”.  I don’t think any of us have the whole equation.  And I don’t think the whole equation has been worked out as yet.  And I find it difficult to understand, why we should not just step into a war–room and debate this to its conclusion, assuming our Lord thinks it time in history that this be done.  It seems He may have spotlighted the issue.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting commentary.  Titled to address Counseling, but opens the door to discuss, at minimum, Unity, Inter-Family Relations and Communications, and the Gospel &#8220;Spat&#8221;.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m going to address the latter issue and leave it to you to post where you determine to be most appropriate since I see you have another area of your site for the Gospel discussions. For reasons of personal preference, I&#8217;ll refer to this &#8220;spat&#8221; as a debate.  </p>
<p>I have watched this debate from afar.  When it intensified awhile back, I too wrote an open letter to the parties, but I did not send it.  It seemed the debate and separations were determined to be necessary.</p>
<p>Some time prior to the intensification, I attended a Pastor’s conference where a paper was presented by one of the debaters, and based upon the questions from the audience it was quite obvious that there was a level of discomfort regarding the paper that had just been presented.  Although I understood the reasoning, I was disheartened that the decision was made to leave the topic and continue with the other scheduled presentations.  With all the minds in attendance, it seemed an excellent time to continue the discussion on the Gospel, or at least to provide the opportunity for any interested parties to meet afterward and continue the discussion and debate as necessary.</p>
<p>Another thing I noticed from the questions was that each questioner had what seemed to be a favorite aspect of the Gospel that they were concerned had been negated or had become secondary.  </p>
<p>You make a good point about the fact that in earlier times there was a presumption of unity and that things got worked out.  Sadly your point about our ability to take a position today and then just separate and move on is also quite true.  And this point has come back upon itself in that there are so many different opinions today and such extensive immediately available communications of them, that even the most important and basic doctrines of the Bible, including the Gospel, are so varied and confused that unity in understanding is nothing more than something Christ Himself will need to return to establish.  We can be thankful that we are not the Sovereign Executive of Evangelism, nor the Sovereign Executive of anything, or we would accomplish nothing as a Body.</p>
<p>The Gospel debate should continue.  Maybe the fact that is has heated up has to do with all the confused and varied forms of it being presented today.  Maybe it heated up because it needs to be brought into focus and straightened out like the other historical controversies you mention.  If we listen, there are way too many versions of the Gospel being expressed quite loudly and boldly.  No surprise but not good.  </p>
<p>For me, I’m not so concerned with men acting like children as we all do at times.  I’m more concerned with how we let a major point of our Faith be put aside while we carry on with our scheduled agendas, and how we carry on thinking we know the truth but that other guy who I used to go to, to help me understand an area of Scripture I was struggling with, now has no merit as an exegete, at least on this topic.</p>
<p>The more I watch us as a Body, and the more I attempt to recognize my own sin ridden capacities and motivations, the more I’m reminded of an old TV commercial that stopped the argument by saying, “Stop! You’re both right”.  I don’t think any of us have the whole equation.  And I don’t think the whole equation has been worked out as yet.  And I find it difficult to understand, why we should not just step into a war–room and debate this to its conclusion, assuming our Lord thinks it time in history that this be done.  It seems He may have spotlighted the issue.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Nichols</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2009 19:10:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amanda, 

I&#039;ve found it helpful to study the controversies surrounding the doctrine of the Trinity and the Council of Nicea in connection with this.  It has the advantage of being a success story -- but one of the key differences between that time and this one is the presumption of unity.  Back then, they really believed that there was only &lt;em&gt;one&lt;/em&gt; church, so they had to work it out.  
Now -- at least in Protestantism -- we tend to just form a new sect and keep on going.  It&#039;s an incredibly rotten testimony.

His, 
Tim]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amanda, </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve found it helpful to study the controversies surrounding the doctrine of the Trinity and the Council of Nicea in connection with this.  It has the advantage of being a success story &#8212; but one of the key differences between that time and this one is the presumption of unity.  Back then, they really believed that there was only <em>one</em> church, so they had to work it out.<br />
Now &#8212; at least in Protestantism &#8212; we tend to just form a new sect and keep on going.  It&#8217;s an incredibly rotten testimony.</p>
<p>His,<br />
Tim</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 22:16:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#039;re right, this does sound VERY familiar. Unfortunately. 

Another thing that makes me sad, and I think you hit the nail on the head with the tag title &quot;Bare Minimum Gospel Foolishness&quot;, is how adamantly and ferociously so many people on both sides either are or have &quot;debated&quot; [fought] over the issue. Yes, it is an important issue, but so many of the debaters act like it&#039;s the biggest crisis of the Body that could ever occur. To me, THAT fact is an even bigger crisis. It&#039;s creating so much discord among brothers and sisters, and it&#039;s in many ways HINDERING the Gospel that they&#039;re arguing over!! 

&quot;Because if we want to avoid similar decades-long battles in other areas — like, say, over the exact content that one must believe to be saved — then it is helpful to see what our brothers have done wrong (and what they have done right) in past conflicts.&quot;

Another good point, and something I&#039;ve wondered about and didn&#039;t really know where to go or what to research. Then again, there are probably many conflicts like this littered through the history of the Christian church,  both past and present. It&#039;s funny sometimes to read about issues that have seemed so tragic in the past, that we don&#039;t even think twice about now. When reading through a collection of letters written by C.S. Lewis, my stepmom found a missive where he lamented to a friend regarding the way certain churches and schools were reacting to The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe in the 1950&#039;s. Apparantly, many of these institutions were banning/speaking negatively about it because they thought Aslan was too scary, and the White Witch too violent! Good thing those people had no preemptive knowledge of the books that Christians would attempt to ban in another 50 years.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re right, this does sound VERY familiar. Unfortunately. </p>
<p>Another thing that makes me sad, and I think you hit the nail on the head with the tag title &#8220;Bare Minimum Gospel Foolishness&#8221;, is how adamantly and ferociously so many people on both sides either are or have &#8220;debated&#8221; [fought] over the issue. Yes, it is an important issue, but so many of the debaters act like it&#8217;s the biggest crisis of the Body that could ever occur. To me, THAT fact is an even bigger crisis. It&#8217;s creating so much discord among brothers and sisters, and it&#8217;s in many ways HINDERING the Gospel that they&#8217;re arguing over!! </p>
<p>&#8220;Because if we want to avoid similar decades-long battles in other areas — like, say, over the exact content that one must believe to be saved — then it is helpful to see what our brothers have done wrong (and what they have done right) in past conflicts.&#8221;</p>
<p>Another good point, and something I&#8217;ve wondered about and didn&#8217;t really know where to go or what to research. Then again, there are probably many conflicts like this littered through the history of the Christian church,  both past and present. It&#8217;s funny sometimes to read about issues that have seemed so tragic in the past, that we don&#8217;t even think twice about now. When reading through a collection of letters written by C.S. Lewis, my stepmom found a missive where he lamented to a friend regarding the way certain churches and schools were reacting to The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe in the 1950&#8242;s. Apparantly, many of these institutions were banning/speaking negatively about it because they thought Aslan was too scary, and the White Witch too violent! Good thing those people had no preemptive knowledge of the books that Christians would attempt to ban in another 50 years.</p>
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